For the second year in row, our dear friends from Texas (AJ, Laura,and #8) drove all the way to our home in South Carolina to spend a few days of their vacation with us and to celebrate our Independence Day together, blowing stuff up and eating lots of yummy food. We laughed, shared memories and just enjoyed each other’s company.
Somehow this year, we started talking about Meyers-Briggs personality types and my brother-from-another-mother pointed out a simple description of the difference between Introverts and Extroverts. I, being an Introvert, lose energy with prolonged exposure to people, even beloved friends. He, being an Extrovert, replenishs his energy supply from being around people.
So, when I wake up in the morning, my batteries are fully charged because I’ve had a nice long break away from people (well, except for my beloved wife). AJ wakes up depleted and needs company fast in order to recharge. Basically, my brother is a vampire feeding off of people like me. 😂
Thing is that I love being around my friends and family, but I don’t really have this burning need to DO stuff. I just love knowing they are near. I do, however, need a plan or some milestones for the day – like what we’re going to eat or if I need to drive anyone anywhere or if we need supplies, etc. Guess if you are a father of seven, much of this stems from necessity.
At one point during our weekend, I think a circuit just snapped in my head and I made a mess of the festivities, getting short with my wife and embarrassing myself in front of my friends because “I just needed to know the details of the plan!“.
Sigh, thankfully my wife and our friends love me too much to hold a grudge when I get stupid.
Have you ever seen Weird Science? There’s this scene where Gary and Wyatt are hosting this huge, rocking party and where are they? Hiding out in the bedroom, taking some consolation that everyone else seems to be having a good time. I can totally relate to them. 😁
But here’s how thoughtful and wise God is. In all my quirks and oddities, my wife is the glue that keeps it all together for me. She, being an Extrovert, can graciously host dozens of our friends at our home without batting an eye.
Well, the Fourth came and I was super excited. I had a stock pile of fireworks all planned out. And then, our friends brought even more! They brought food, children, and most importantly, themselves.
I was a little nervous because of the rain in the forecast, but it cleared up just in time for the show. God is good!
The week was a huge success. We had such a good time with our friends. I didn’t have to drive cross country and enjoyed the comforts of home. We blew up a ton of explosives. AND, no police showed up! (We’ve got a cranky neighbor that complains to them anytime we’re out in our yard after 9 pm).
I am so thankful for all of you in my life. Thanks for the best vacation an INTJ can ask for.